Pleasure guide: which crystal is right for you? - Lila Rasa

Pleasure guide: which crystal is right for you?

Enhancing your pleasure is an art. Finding the right crystal as a tool to manifest this pleasure is a skill. By carefully and intuitively selecting a crystal that resonates with your pleasure journey, you can take yourself to places that you have yet to experience.

Yoni translates to meaning “sacred space” and is the Sanskrit word for vagina. Crystal yoni wands have been used for centuries for self-pleasure, manifestation, and inner healing. They are a tool to connect with your inner self and help you on your journey for self-discovery and healing. Crystals carry certain frequencies and energies. They can help you work through and overcome deep-seated emotions you have held tightly in your body, emotions that can prevent you from connecting with yourself and subsequently with your partners. By helping open these emotional energy centres you can begin to release these emotions you have been hanging on to and open yourself up to a connection that you have not yet opened yourself up to experience. Pick your crystal by listening to your inner voice and ask yourself the question of which stone resonates most deeply with you.


Rose Quartz

Rose Quartz is connected to the Heart chakra, the centre of love. Therefore, it is naturally called the love stone. This doesn’t mean that using this stone will attract a lover but rather it will help to align you with your self-love and self-appreciation. This begs the question of how much love you are allowing into your life? Self-love can be seen in various ways. From taking the time to tell yourself how beautiful you are to making the time to make love to yourself, discovering your body in a new slow, and passionate way. Taking this time to discover what you want will strengthen not only your relationship with yourself but also with your partner or future partner.

“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They've been with each other all along.” – Rumi 

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Aries, Taurus, Libra, and Scorpio. 

Black Obsidian

Black Obsidian is connected to the Base or Root chakra. This is a stone, a woman that wants to expel all negative energy out of her life and reinstate balance and harmony. It is for protection, cleansing, and grounding. Black obsidian will help you cut ties with whatever may be draining you and help you move forward. Using this stone is the practice of self-love. It can help you release old emotions and help you heal from past trauma that you have stored in your body, or specifically your yoni, as our bodies hold on to past and unresolved emotions.  Working with Black obsidian you will begin to understand the lessons you have experienced in life and help you feel more empowered. It is a supportive stone helping you call back your divine feminine power. 

“There is deep wisdom within our very flesh if we can only come to our senses and feel it.” - Elizabeth A. Behnke

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Scorpio and Saggitarius.

Green Aventurine 

Green Aventurine is connected to the Heart chakra. This means that this stone will help you balance your giving and receiving. Traditionally associated with money and the receiving thereof, this stone can also help you accept and receive love. It works on your prosperity, helps you manifest, and helps you restore balance in your life. This is for a woman that needs assistance with manifesting her reality. Green Aventurine can help you balance your emotional centres and your life and help manifest your dream reality. Our thoughts are connected to our emotions and create our reality. If you feel love, you will attract love. But if you feel anger, you will attract situations wherein anger is prominent. Therefore, if you feel the emotion of the outcome that you would like to manifest, you will create the reality wherein you want to live. 

“I love and appreciate myself” - Louise Hay

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Taurus, Pisces, and Virgo. 


Amethyst is a powerhouse of a stone. It is connected to your Third Eye or Brow chakra and works to untangle your overactive thoughts. Slowing you down and bringing you back to the present moment. Using this stone at night can help you sleep, not only because it can help you reach new orgasmic heights as the stone vibrates its supportive and healing energy through you. But it gives you the authority to give time to yourself and explore your feminine centre. It can help you tap into a feminine power that has been numbed down due to the busy lives we lead. But by taking the time to enjoy yourself, and your time, you will begin to value just how important your time is. Start questioning, how much time are you giving to yourself?  

“Love is not about property, diamonds and gifts. It is about sharing your very self with the world around you.” - Pablo Neruda

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Aries, Aquarius, and Pisces. 


Clear Quartz

Clear Quartz has been described as the master crystal. It has an extreme power to amplify, focus, store, transform and transmit energy. This stone is connected to all the chakras. It is like a blank canvas that is ready to be programmed- depending on your needs. The high- vibration that this stone emits emanates pure white light to help cleanse your energy and energize your body, mind and spirit. Therefore, helping to align you with your higher self. This stone can be used for enhancing meditations, healing, protection, connecting with your guides, boosting your confidence and can help you attract abundance in all areas in your life. Clear Quartz can be programmed by first cleansing the stone and then focusing on an intention while holding the stone. If you are looking for love, set an intention by focusing on calling love into the stone, feel the love around you and imagine the love you would like to feel coming towards you.

“There is always a gap between intention and action.”- Paulo Coelho

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Leo but any star sign will benefit from the magic of this stone.


Blue Aventurine 

Blue Aventurine is known as the healer’s stone, and this applies physically and energetically. It is connected to the Third Eye and Throat Chakras. It encourages open and honest communication so it can be very useful to use in a relationship and can help you set and test boundaries. This stone is for the traveller, the lover, and the teacher. It promotes self-exploration and helps you to learn more about yourself. Aiding in inspiration and exploration. Physically, Blue Aventurine can help with insomnia, lessen headaches, and aid in dispelling bad habits. Emotionally, this stone can also calm and relax your fiery emotions soothing you. Blue Aventurine won’t take all your problems away but it can help you on your spiritual path. 

"Change, like healing, takes time.” - Veronica Roth

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Aquarius and Libra.


Red Jasper

Red Jasper can help with balancing your emotional state. This stone is connected to the Base chakra, helping you with grounding and restoring balance in your life. Red Jasper is known as the supreme nurturer. If you need some support this would be the stone for you as it helps feed your inner strength and power. This stone has a long history of deep healing and if used in the right way can assist you with bringing balance, stamina and courage. This stone also has a beautiful way of providing comfort.

"The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow. For every challenge encountered, there is an opportunity for growth. - Anonymous

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Aries, Taurus, Virgo and Leo.


Green Jade

Green Jade is a magical stone that can provide you with luck, help you heal and is also great for relationships. This stone is connected to the Heart chakra, and does not demand from you but provides you with warmth and comfort gently helping you along your life’s journey. Green Jade has a beautiful way of creating calm in chaos, both internally and extremely, helping you ease your worried mind. It is also great for helping treat anxiety and depression and will help to empower you to be your most authentic, true self. While driving your ambition and supporting you along the way.

“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it.”- Henry Ford

Star sign compatibility with this stone: Taurus, Libra, Capricorn and Virgo.

Resonate deeply with any of these stones? Have a look at our collection in our store and explore the possibility of another level of self-pleasure.

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